You're physically attracted to a potential mate, yet do you have enough information to make an informed decision about the compatibility beyond the initial attraction?
Here's five clues that can help determine the longevity of your choice.
1. What's the core family values your potential mate believes? Knowing these things can help you understand what may be an asset, or a liability.
2. What's Important to your potential mate? What drives them, beyond core values? Knowing these facts, can be the difference between harmony, or conflict.
3. What past hurt does your potential mate have? Have the hurts been addressed, or just barried deep within thier identity, only to resurface and cause discourse later?
4. Does your mate have a set of emotional, spiritual, or physical tools that helps them deal with day to day life stress. And do you practice the like?
5. How does your potential mate feel about momey and are they manageable with the resources they have? Research shows, money is the number one division within relationships. Know where they stand is important.
All of these factors are crucial to a lasting relationships, which can determine if yours may be solid, or a time bomb waiting to explode to a hurtful break-up later. While sexual compatibility is a fantastic caveat, it is a small portion of the relationship as a whole. Knowledge of your potential mates past, i.e. patterns of dealing with intimate relationships is relative to whether you are in for a short emotional rollercoaster, or a somewhat smooth ride. Lasting intimate relationships are becoming a thing of the past...knowing these simple answers, can help determine if yours will endure.
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